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Ally's Corner

By RICHARD WALKER
T&D Staff Writer  Tuesday, May 22, 2007

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At 10 years old, the little girl has been described as an outgoing youngster, one who watched over children smaller than herself, just like a mother would do. She liked dolls, but she really liked animals.

She didn't have a job like grown-ups do. No store was hers, nor had she won the lottery. But she'd always find ways to have a little bit of money so she could give something to others. Ally liked that, giving to others.

Friends and relatives smile at how Ally collected loose change from her grandfather's vehicle after he'd made his rounds as a rural mail carrier. Nickels, dimes, pennies that had dropped into the floorboard -- she'd dig them out, even the ones that fell under the seat.

"She always wanted to buy for other children, and she was always doing little things for everyone to let them know that she loved them," said Ally's mother, Kristie Garrick.

At Ally's school, Bowman Academy, Ally would ask the school staff to have those loose coins changed into dollars.

"We haven't rolled those yet," school secretary Heather Limehouse said, pointing at a pile of change on a counter in the school office. "We just can't bring ourselves to roll it."

The coins sit on the counter, just where Ally left them. Some quarters, some dimes, some pennies. They lay just where a child's small hand opened to share the treasures of her heart.

But Ally doesn't bring quarters and nickels and dimes to the school office any more. She doesn't play mommy to smaller children, nor does she play with her dolls any longer.

On Feb. 24, Ally was involved in an accident. An ATV rolled over. And God gave her a new job. He wanted her to play mommy to the smaller angels in heaven.

"I knew her since she first started school," Bowman Academy librarian Francis Metts said. "It was just hard, she was here and suddenly she's not here."

She was born Allyson Morgan Ayers on Oct. 9, 1996. Her friends and family just called her "Ally." Before she became God's angel, she was a fourth-grader at Bowman Academy.

The news went through the Bowman community quickly. The school, a close-knit student body of 130, was shocked.

"We were at a basketball game," says 11th-grader Wesley Collier. "I remember all of us went outside. We had a little meeting and we prayed."

But for Collier, the loss was especially difficult. He was like an older brother to the little blonde-haired, blue-eyed girl. Ally's two brothers, Tommy and Tyler, were his best friends. Collier said he felt as if he'd lost a sibling himself.

Compelled by such a close loss, Collier started a fundraiser to create a lasting memorial to the child, whose teachers describe her as "a little sunshine."

"Wesley has always been a big brother to her," family friend Robin Shuler said of her son. "She was very close to her older brother, and they would play together."

The idea started out as a drive to pay for a simple plaque. But the community businesses, residents and students donated more than enough to pay for a plaque.

In fact, several hundred dollars were raised in a short while. With money left over, the idea for a memorial garden on the school campus took shape.

A Bowman Academy graduate, a landscaper and a basketball coach at the school, Donnie Knight volunteered his services to create the garden of roses, cherry trees and day lilies.

"It's the meaning of the thing," Knight said. "It's for the kids."

The 2007 senior class, which would normally raise money through the year for their prom and class trip, donated those funds to the memorial garden.

"This year, they're using their money for benches to go in the memorial garden," Metts said.

Sadly, someone entered the school grounds recently and removed seven of the rose plants. A few days later, four more were dug up.

Those who knew her said the little outgoing Ally would probably have given the roses to the person who took them.

"She was just special," Limehouse said.

With the roses replaced, the memorial garden is nearing completion. A dedication service will coincide with the graduation commencement on May 24.

Still, there were leftover funds from the generosity of the community. Not much, but enough to perhaps purchase a few new books for the library.

There will soon be a corner of the school library that will be set apart for books on animals, on mommies, on learning and giving. It's to be called "Ally's Corner."

"She was an angel on earth," Ally's grandmother, Linda Felkel, said. "Now, she's an angel in Heaven."

T&D Staff Writer Richard Walker can be reached by e-mail at rwalker@timesanddemocrat.com or by telephone at 803-533-5516. Discuss this and other stories on-line at TheTandD.com.

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The following comments are reader submitted. They do not represent the views of The T&D or Lee Enterprises.

Yvonne wrote on May 23, 2007 8:22 PM:

" To Darlene: You seem to know a lot about grief and spelling which is about hardly nothing. What the school did does help students and family. In my hometown of Hampton, the high school started planting trees for each student that died during school year or during the summer with a small plaque. One of our own lost his life in Kuwait this past year with a bomber. His tree is planted there. He gave his life for your and everyone in Bowman and Hampton. Its only right and its an honor. Try to think of it that way. "

Carrol wrote on May 23, 2007 8:03 PM:

" I think that what the community and school did was the greatest thing to keep Ally memory going on for years to come. I can only imagine the pride as she looks down at her own little garden and probably holding onto Jesus hand while she looks on. Being part of the family I am thankful that people care to do this! And to the ones who needed the rose bushes so bad, I hope God blesses you in a special way...... "

BOWMAN IS GREAT! wrote on May 23, 2007 10:41 AM:

" I AM FROM BOWMAN AND HAVE BEEN IN THE BOWMAN AREA ALL OF MY LIFE UNTIL NOW AND I MUST SAY THAT BOWMAN PEOPLE ARE GREAT AND VERY KIND HEARTED. THIS IS A GREAT THING TO DO TO KEEP LITTLE ALLY'S MEMORIES ALIVE INSIDE OF EVERYONE. AND "GO DONNY" YOU ARE SUCH A GREAT GUY TO DONATE YOUR TIME AND EFFORT! ITS ALWAYS VERY HARD TO ADJUST TO A PASSING OF A FAMILY OF FRIEND OF THIS SMALL COMMUNITY BUT THIS MAKES IT A MUCH EASIER TO LOOK PAST THE BAD AND WATCH THE NEW BLOOMINGS. YES LITTLE ALLY YOU ARE VERY MUCH MISSED BY YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS AND THE ENTIRE COMMUNITY BUT THANKS TO THE GREAT PEOPLE IN THE COMMUNITY YOUR MEMORIES WILL CONTINUE TO BLOSSUM.. "

darlene wrote on May 23, 2007 10:01 AM:

" i didn't know her but seems as though she had the right ideal. so why are you spending all the money on things that will last only for a moment. why didn't you do like she did and help some other needed person. it was nice to honor her but the money could have been use more wisley. "



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A memorial garden was created on the campus of Bowman Academy in honor Allyson Morgan Ayers.




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