NEW YORK -- Kiley Krzyzek is going to be a counselor-in-training for a month this summer. She'll do choir camp for a week.

But it's the rest of the time the 14-year-old wants to fill up, the weeks when there is nothing going on.

"At first, it's a big relief to be off from school without extra work and stress," said Kiley, of West Hartford, Conn. "But then it gets to be too boring. You find yourself watching TV too much, on the computer too much."

Many parents of tweens and young teens are looking to beat summer boredom as the economy puts pricey specialty camps and residential camps out of reach. Residential camps cost anywhere from $325 to $1,200 a week, according to the American Camp Association. And some day camps charge for counselor-in-training programs for young teens.

Since they are old enough to stay home, some parents who need to cut costs say enrolling their kids in programs for most of the summer is not an option.

Anne Wear, 42, of High Point, N.C., said she can only afford to send her almost 13-year-old daughter to day camp for five weeks; the rest of the summer she'll remain at home. Wear recently took a 20-percent pay cut and has two younger children -- one will be going to day care, the other to camp.

"With my pay cut and the economy the way it is, we can't afford to do more than that," said Wear, who works in public relations.

Summer is tough for tweens and young teens, experts say. Kids in that 12- to 15-year-old age range are old enough to stay home, but too young to drive or get jobs other than things like baby-sitting and mowing lawns.

But while it can be easy and cheaper to leave kids home to entertain themselves when parents are working, too much unstructured time can lead to boredom, which is a constant complaint from tweens and young teens, said Denise Restauri, founder and CEO of AllyKatzz.com, a social networking site for girls ages 10 to 15.

Kids want to be active, Restauri said, and many are so overprogrammed they don't know what to do with free time.

That can turn into a lot of television watching, computer playing and texting.

Lee Ann Fleming, 46, of Centennial, Colo., who has a son turning 12 next week, said she found a local program this summer for kids ages 11 to 14, but can afford to send him only a couple of days a week.

Fleming works from home, so she can supervise somewhat, but there will be stretches where she will be working.

"He'll read a lot. He'll draw," she said. "There'll probably be too much time watching mindless television. I don't know what else to do."

Allison Minnick, 49, a stay-at-home mom in Littleton, Colo., worries her 13-year-old son is too attached to his cell phone (texting) and iPod touch (playing games).

Her son likes to skateboard with friends in the grocery store parking lot, which she is not crazy about either. She signed him up for baseball two nights a week and is considering a boxing class. In the meantime, her 11-year-old is going to cheer camp for a week and taking English riding lessons.

Suzanna Narducci, co-founder of TweenParent.com, a site for parents of preteens, suggests parents look for activities that are specific to children's interests, whether it's music, art or science.

Her 12-year-old daughter is going to sleepaway camp for four weeks, and her 9-year-old is doing a day science camp program at a local university.

"We are hoping to go on vacation for part of the summer," said Narducci, of New York City. "Otherwise, the kids will hang out here, and we will explore the city."

That kind of balance, downtime and activities, is good for tweens, who need a break from school and shouldn't be programmed all summer long, said Carol Weston, advice columnist for Girls' Life magazine.

Summer is a great time for them to develop new skills, especially if there is something they want to learn, she said.

Not to mention too much time on their hands can lead to trouble, said tween and teen expert Annie Fox. "Anything seems like a good idea because there is nothing happening."

Young teens are trying to find activities to fill their summer weeks.

Courtney Mansfield, 12, of Rye Brook, N.Y., is going to visit a cousin in Ireland, and unlike last summer, many of her friends will be around (they say they are too old for camp, she said.) She said last summer, she read, watched Disney and played on the computer.

But even with a more action-filled summer, she's usually glad when school starts again.

"In the beginning of summer, I am really happy to be out school," she said. "But at the end, I get really anxious and want to go back."

Tween stuck at home? 6 tips

to keep boredom away

NEW YORK (AP) -- Looking for ways to keep your tween or young teen busy over the summer? Here are six ideas to pull them away from the computer, the television and the cell phone:

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Look into teen classes, said Carol Weston, advice columnist for Girls' Life magazine. Summer school might not excite, but look for classes in areas kids may have an interest in, like writing, drama, art or lifeguarding. If transportation is a problem, coordinate with other parents.

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Help kids find work, such as baby-sitting, car washing, dog walking or lawn mowing, Weston said. Perhaps you know someone who could use some extra help in his office. Kids want to make extra money.

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Check churches, soup kitchens, senior centers, animal shelters and the like to see if they need volunteers.

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Investigate local summer programming. Try the YMCA, library, colleges, museums or even health clubs. For example, Lifestyle Family Fitness has free summer memberships for teens 12 to 17 in all 55 of its locations.

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Consider a kid swap, Weston suggested. One parent can take the kids on an outing one day, another can take them somewhere another day.

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Explore summer camp options. Many have counselor-in-training or other programs for teens. For pricier specialty or residential camps, ask about financial aid or a group rate if several kids enroll together. Find camps at acacamps.org.

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